Yarns by Adults

Adult dating is completely different to teenage dating. Teenage dating is all about getting with someone to brag about at school, or to loose your virginity to. adult dating is all about getting with someone to spend the rest of your life with, or to parent your children with you. When teenagers are a couple, they think that they will get married. They think that they will live happily ever after and that they will be together forever. They think that just because their other half calls them 'fit' or 'beautiful' that it's true love. Of course - they are more than likely to break up within the next fortnight anyway, and none of these dreams will come true. Adult dating is far more realistic.An adult knows if their date will or wont fit into their life and whether they really want them to or not. They know that if their date hates children, then they are obviously unsuitable to help look after your kids from a previous relationship. They don't think that just because their date looks like a model, they are perfect. Teenagers make the mistake of falling in love (so they think) with people that represent celebrity's. If the boy in their maths class looks like the idol from their favourite pop band, then they think that the boy is the right one for them. It's this type of ridiculous non logical thinking that dooms most teenage relationships for failure. Teenagers seem to think that it is impressive to be able to say that they've kissed over 200 girls and shagged nearly 30 of them. They think its good to have had 13 girl friends last year, and have a record of 6 by February. Adult dating is not about that. Adult dating is more about finding the one person that you are in love with - rather than getting an impressive (or not) long list of past partners. I have said all of this, but now I will contradict it all. What I have just said is the typical situation for adults and teenagers in the UK. I am a teenager. I am 18 years old and I have a boyfriend who is 17. I fully believe that we are ment to be together, and we are going to go to the same university as we cant bare to be apart. It physically hurts. I don't think that we are like the average teenage couple that are only together for a few weeks to have sex.