Yarns by Adults

We were all in the office feeling a bit bored at the moment due to the slow economy crisis hitting on which affected the sales market. So most of us were around in the office and a colleague of mine started to gossip about her friend who arranged to meet swingers just to spice up their love lives by joining the adult websites.

A colleague of mine started to join in too and commented he has done it as well. His initial purpose was to meet swingers because he and his partner were bored and lost the fun in bed. It took them just over a week joining the adult website and chatting with couple on common interest and was later being invited for the exclusive party. Ever since they joined the swinger club, it had helped to save his relationship and in fact improved it tremendously. Meet swingers made it more exciting and brought on unexpected jealousy which he never realised and fun into his relationship. Also, meet swingers did bring on the excitement of unknown. The thought of it already got everyone excitement raising. It was intriguing just listening to him. Sometimes they would dress up in fantasy clothing to meet the swingers which was more mysterious and made it more exciting. It was either fun parties or pay parties. Single male or female. Everyone was out there having fun. It was fun listening to his experiences but I knew I could never do it.

I was not one who is able to share intimate moment involving another party or parties. It would make me feel like my privacy was invaded. So to meet swingers was definitely out for me. I believed communication is crucial in any relationship, not sharing or exchanging partner in bed. It would turn me into an empty shell I believed. Furthermore, I was not one who has very much confidence with my body even though my husband has told me umpteen times how beautiful I was. I could not imagine looking at my husband touching another woman would ruin me emotionally and physically.

I guess it was more down to my own self confidence as well as upbringing. I also do have some traditional ways of thinking. Just the thought to meet swingers to improve one’s relationship was not my cup of tea. I would not judge those who do it, it was just not meant for me.